How to Seed

Two practices we live by — gathering and sending. The rhythm we use to read the Bible together, and the quiet way we hand a Bible forward when the Lord shows us who.

"For where two or three gather in my name, there am I with them."

— Matthew 18:20 NIV

1. How we run a life group

When we gather as a group — Tuesday evenings, a home study, around a fire — we move through five movements together. They aren't a checklist. They're a rhythm. Most groups take about two hours, but the movements stretch and breathe based on who's in the room and where the Spirit leads.

1

Worship & Prayer

Serve with Grace ~15–20 min

Start with worship. Songs gather the room — even before everyone has fully arrived. Then open in prayer together. We come to God first, before we come to each other.

"Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God." — Philippians 4:6 NIV
Before the meeting (~15 min the day before) Read the chapter on your own. Note one Old Testament passage that echoes, sets up, or is fulfilled by what this chapter is doing — even by feel. Keep it to one verse, not three. If the Old Testament prompt comes up in reflection, you'll have a verse ready. If you're stuck, reach out to someone in the group who's stronger in Scripture and ask. The leader doesn't carry this alone.
Hosting tip Two or three songs is plenty. If more than one person is leading, take five minutes beforehand to pick the songs and decide who's leading what. If you're solo, use Spotify or YouTube — or ask whoever's most comfortable singing. Worship doesn't need to be perfect. It needs to be honest. Let go, and God meets you there.
2

Introduction

Embrace Fellowship ~10–15 min

Greet each other. Share what God has been doing this week — a small win, a hard week, an answered prayer, a question that's been sitting with you. The room becomes a body, not a crowd.

Hosting tip If someone new is in the room, introduce yourselves first and let them share whenever they're ready. Don't put a stranger on the spot. Grace before depth.
3

Encounter Jesus in the Word

Encounter the Word ~25–35 min

Read this week's anchor chapter together — out loud, slowly, all the way through. One person can read the whole chapter, or you can pass it around verse by verse. Sit with it. Take a breath when you need one.

One chapter is the cap. Half a chapter is fine. Don't pile on extra reading mid-meeting. The depth comes from sitting with the text, not racing through it. Take your time — even if it means only reading half.

This week's chapter: see this week's plan →

After reading — three minutes of silence Once the passage has been read, take a few minutes to yourselves before the group conversation starts. Re-read a verse that caught you. Write a sentence in a journal if you're called to. Pray quietly. The group reflection lands deeper when each person has had time alone in the text first.
Going Deeper (optional, before the meeting) This week's chapter pairs with the Old Testament walk on the Going Deeper Today row of our community page. If you have time before the meeting, glance at that day's Old Testament reading too — it gives you a verse to pull from when the "where does this connect to the rest of Scripture?" prompt comes up in reflection. New to reading the Bible? Start with the 30-day starter plan instead.
Hosting tip Have one or two extra Bibles on the table for anyone who didn't bring theirs. We give Bibles away — if someone needs one, we can help with that.
4

Reflection

Embrace Fellowship ~30–40 min

Walk through this together. The leader opens with one question. After that, the conversation is the conversation — not a script, not a checklist. There are no wrong answers, and a question can linger a week or longer.

The opener (always)

What stood out to you? A verse, a phrase, a person, a feeling — anything.

Pass it around. Anyone can answer, anyone can pass. Don't move on until everyone who wants to share has shared. Silence is fine.

If the room needs a nudge — pick ONE

These are prompts, not a checklist. Pick the one the conversation seems hungry for and stay with it. If a prompt goes deep, don't try to also hit the others. The Spirit picks the one for the night.

  • Where did we see grace? The character of God showing up — mercy, kindness, patience, rescue. Where does it land in this chapter? (Serve with Grace)
  • Where does this connect to the rest of Scripture? What in the Old Testament does this echo, fulfill, or look forward to? Even just by feel — what does it remind you of? (Encounter the Word)
  • What is this asking of us as a body? Not a list of personal to-dos. What changes if we, together, took this seriously? (Embrace Fellowship)
  • Who needs to hear this? Not in the abstract — a name, a person, a conversation you've been putting off. (Disciples of all Nations)
"Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind." — Romans 12:2 NIV
Hosting tips

Save your follow-up teaching for the end. The reflection is for the room, not the leader. If you have something to add or correct, write it down and bring it back when the reflection wraps. Save your questions until the end so the group can complete a thorough reflection.

Watch the room. If someone has been quiet for ten minutes, ask them gently — "What stood out to you?" Make space. Don't let the loud voices fill the whole hour.

Name the conclusion when you need to. If a question is generating debate that's pulling the group apart, step in honestly: "Good — let's land here for tonight and come back to it next time." That's leadership, not legalism.

A different perspective is not a derailment. It's often what the Spirit was showing the group. The script is a starting point, not a fence. Walk with where the conversation goes.

Practice prayer out loud. Take turns praying. We pray publicly here so we have the muscle when we evangelize in outreach.

5

How We Outreach

Disciples of all Nations ~15–25 min

Share what's coming — events, goals, who needs prayer, who you're going to this week. Pray over it together. Then linger over food and drinks. The meeting ends when people walk out the door — and they walk out sent.

"Therefore go and make disciples of all nations… and surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age." — Matthew 28:19-20 NIV
Hosting tip Tea, coffee, snacks — whatever's on the table is enough. The fellowship after the prayer is where deeper conversations happen. Don't rush people out.
While you're here, look around If you're meeting in a public space — a café, a restaurant, a park — pay attention to who else is there. If someone's just hanging out near you and the Spirit nudges, invite them over. Ask their name. Ask how they're doing. We don't have to interrupt anyone's evening — but we don't have to be invisible either. Practice the invitation here, so it's not awkward when we're out evangelizing.

2. How to Seed

A quiet invitation

Take a Bible home — only if you'd like to.

If you join us for a life group, you're welcome to take a Bible home for the week. We'd ask one thing of you:

In your prayer time, ask the Lord who this Bible is for. Don't force it. If someone comes to mind, give it. If no one comes to mind, bring it back next week. There's no pressure either way.

The work is the Lord's. The Bible is the seed.

"Each of you should give what you have decided in your heart to give, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver." — 2 Corinthians 9:7 NIV
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👉 What to do with the Bible this week

How the week shapes you

  1. Read it for yourself first. Open it slowly. Let the Word do its work in you before you think about who it's for.
  2. Pray honestly. About the people in your life, your own heart, what God is putting in front of you — not a hand-off plan. A real prayer life.
  3. Stay listening — no deadline. When a name comes, it comes. If it doesn't this week, bring the Bible back next time. The seed has already done its work in you.

If you do hand it over

Say it in your own words. Something like: "I was praying this week, and the Lord put you on my heart. Take this — it's yours."

Pass it on

Two friends. Open Bibles. The Spirit at work.

That's a life group. The five movements are how we hold the rhythm — they're not the source. The source is Jesus.

If you're ready, send the message. Set the date. Open the door.

Sincerely,
The Seed the Word team

Practical questions

How many people do I need?

Two is enough. Jesus said "where two or three gather in my name, there am I with them" (Matthew 18:20). A life group is not a church service — it's a small, honest reading of Scripture together. Three to eight people is a good size; beyond ten and the room gets harder for everyone to share.

What if I'm not comfortable leading?

You don't need to be. The four S.E.E.D. questions in movement 4 do the leading — anyone in the group can guide the conversation. Your job is to open the door and trust the Spirit. Reach out and we'll send someone from the team to your first meeting if you'd like.

What chapter do we read?

The same chapter the rest of our community is reading. Our Mon–Fri plan walks one chapter a day through the New Testament; Saturday's livestream reviews the week. See this week's plan → Anywhere you want to start works — Genesis, Psalms, the Gospels — the rhythm holds.

Where should we meet?

A living room, a kitchen table, a park bench, around a fire, in a coffee shop after closing. Anywhere people can sit, hear each other, and read out loud. Outdoors changes the rhythm a little — worship at the start gathers people around the fire instead of greetings — but the five movements still work.

How long does it take?

Plan for two hours. Some weeks it's 90 minutes; some weeks the conversation goes long and you stay until midnight. Don't watch a clock. The rhythm tells you when it's time to move on.

What if no one knows the songs for worship?

Pull up a worship playlist on Spotify or YouTube and let it play. Hum along. Read a Psalm out loud as a group instead of singing — Psalm 23, Psalm 121, Psalm 91 are good places to start. Worship doesn't have to be musical to be worship.

Can I get Bibles for newcomers?

Yes. We give Bibles away for free to anyone who needs one. Reach out through our contact page and tell us how many you need. The same bundles can also be supported through our store — one person's gift becomes another person's first Bible.

How do I let our team know I started a group?

Tell us. We'd love to hear about it, pray for you, and connect you with others doing the same thing. Send us a message with where you're meeting and roughly when — we won't share the details publicly, we just want to walk alongside you.